Incamake y'Igitabo: The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People CYA Stephen R. Covey - DEEPLYRESEARCHIJD.COM

Uwakoze Incamake : Jean De Dieu .I


Mu ntangiriro z'igitabo, Covey asobanura ko abantu benshi bashaka ibisubizo byihuse cyangwa uburyo bworoshye bwo gutsinda, nyamara intsinzi irambye ishingira ku mahame adahinduka nk'ubunyangamugayo, kubaha abandi, gukorera hamwe, kwigira no gukomeza kwiteza imbere.

1. Habit 1: Be Proactive (Jya ufata inshingano z'ubuzima bwawe)

Iyi ni yo myitwarire ya mbere kandi ni yo shingiro ry'izindi zose. Covey avuga ko umuntu adakwiye guhora ashinja ibibazo bye abandi bantu cyangwa ibihe arimo. Ahubwo agomba kwemera ko afite ubushobozi bwo guhitamo uko yitwara muri buri kibazo.
Abantu bafite iyi myitwarire ntibavuga bati "Sinabishobora" cyangwa "Nta kundi byagenda", ahubwo bavuga bati "Nzabigerageza", "Nzafata icyemezo", cyangwa "Hari icyo nakora". Covey agaragaza ko hagati y'ikintu kibaye n'igisubizo dutanga harimo umwanya wo guhitamo. Uwo mwanya ni wo utandukanya umuntu utsinda n'udatsinda.
Ikindi gitekerezo gikomeye ni Circle of Influence na Circle of Concern. Umuntu ukora neza yibanda ku byo ashobora guhindura aho guta igihe ku byo adafitiye ubushobozi

2. Habit 2: Begin with the End in Mind (Tangira uzi aho ushaka kugera)
Covey asobanura ko mbere yo gutangira ikintu icyo ari cyo cyose, umuntu agomba kubanza kumenya intego ye. Abantu benshi bahora bahuze ariko badafite icyerekezo. Ibyo bituma barangiza imyaka myinshi bakora cyane ariko batageze ku ntego nyamukuru.
Umwanditsi ashishikariza buri muntu kwandika Personal Mission Statement, ni ukuvuga amagambo agaragaza uwo ushaka kuba, indangagaciro zawe n'ubuzima ushaka kubaho. Iyo ufite icyerekezo, ibyemezo byose ufata biba bifite aho bishingiye.

3. Habit 3: Put First Things First (Shyira iby'ingenzi imbere)
Nyuma yo kumenya intego, umuntu agomba kumenya kuyikurikiza. Covey avuga ko ikibazo gikomeye abantu bafite ari ugukoresha igihe ku bintu byihutirwa ariko bidafite akamaro, bakibagirwa iby'ingenzi.
Yerekana Time Matrix, igabanya ibikorwa mu byiciro bine:
• Ibyihutirwa kandi bifite akamaro.
• Bitihutirwa ariko bifite akamaro.
• Byihutirwa ariko bidafite akamaro.
• Bitihutirwa kandi bidafite akamaro.
Covey avuga ko abantu batsinda bamara igihe kinini ku bikorwa byo mu cyiciro cya kabiri: gutegura ejo hazaza, kwiga, kubaka umubano mwiza no kwita ku buzima

4. Habit 4: Think Win-Win (Shaka inyungu ku mpande zombi)
Iyo umuntu amaze kwiyobora neza, agomba kumenya kubana n'abandi. Covey yigisha ko umubano mwiza ushingira ku kuba abantu bose bungukirwa n'icyemezo cyafashwe.
Abantu benshi batekereza mu buryo bwa:
• Win-Lose
• Lose-Win
• Lose-Lose
Ariko uburyo bwiza ni Win-Win, aho impande zombi zungukira hamwe. Ibi bisaba ubunyangamugayo, icyizere no kubaha abandi.

5. Habit 5: Seek First to Understand, Then to Be Understood (Banza wumve abandi mbere yo gushaka ko bakumva)

Covey avuga ko ikibazo gikomeye mu itumanaho ari uko abantu benshi bumva kugira ngo basubize aho kumva kugira ngo basobanukirwe.
Umuntu ushaka gutsinda mu mibanire agomba kubanza gutega amatwi no gusobanukirwa ibitekerezo by'abandi mbere yo gutanga ibye.
Iyi myitwarire yubaka icyizere kandi igabanya amakimbirane.

6. Habit 6: Synergize (Korana n'abandi kugira ngo mugere ku bisubizo birenze ibyo umuntu umwe yakora)

Covey asobanura ko abantu bafite impano zitandukanye. Iyo bakoranye neza, bashobora kugera ku bisubizo birenze ibyo umuntu umwe yakora wenyine.
Synergy si ukwemeranya kuri byose, ahubwo ni ukwemera ko ibitekerezo bitandukanye bishobora kubyara igisubizo cyiza kurushaho.
Mu kazi, mu mashuri no mu miryango, gukorera hamwe ni imwe mu nzira nziza zo kugera ku ntsinzi irambye.

7. Habit 7: Sharpen the Saw (Komeza kwivugurura)
Iyi ni yo myitwarire ya nyuma kandi ishyigikira izindi zose. Covey avuga ko umuntu adakwiye gukora gusa, ahubwo agomba no gufata igihe cyo kwiyubaka.
Yerekana ibice bine umuntu agomba kwitaho:
• Ubuzima bw'umubiri (imyitozo, kurya neza no kuruhuka).
• Ubwenge (gusoma, kwiga no kongera ubumenyi).
• Umwuka n'indangagaciro (gusenga, gutekereza no kugira amahoro).
• Imibanire n'abandi (gufasha, gukunda no kubaka umubano).
Iyo ibi byose byitabwaho, umuntu arushaho kugira imbaraga zo gukomeza gutera imbere.

Inyigisho z'ingenzi ziva muri iki gitabo
Covey agaragaza ko gutsinda nyakuri bituruka ku miterere y'umuntu (Character Ethics), aho kuba ku mayeri yo kwigaragaza gusa (Personality Ethics). Kwihangana, gukorera ku ndangagaciro, kubaha abandi no gukomeza kwiga ni byo bituma umuntu agera ku ntsinzi irambye.
Ikindi ni uko ubuzima bugomba kubaho bufite intego. Iyo umuntu azi icyo ashaka kugeraho, amenya no guhitamo ibikorwa bifite agaciro. Gukoresha igihe neza, gufata inshingano, kubaka umubano mwiza no gukorana n'abandi ni byo bigize umuntu ukora neza kandi ufitiye abandi akamaro.

Umusozo
The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People ni igitabo cyigisha ko impinduka nyakuri zitangirira mu muntu ubwe. Iyo umuntu afashe inshingano z'ubuzima bwe, akagira icyerekezo, agashyira imbere iby'ingenzi, akubaka umubano mwiza n'abandi kandi agakomeza kwiyubaka buri munsi, ashobora kugera ku ntsinzi irambye mu buzima bwe, mu muryango, mu kazi no muri sosiyete. Iyi myitwarire ndwi ntabwo ari amategeko yo gusoma gusa, ahubwo ni uburyo bwo kubaho bushobora guhindura imibereho y'umuntu igihe azishyize mu bikorwa buri munsi.

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